November 04, 2009 When and Why the Kids Don't Come First Published by Wednesday Martin If the partnership gets shunted to the back burner whenever his kids are around, it's a recipe for resentment and martial/stepfamily tension I would love your thoughts on my new piece on stepmothering for the Huffington Post: please post a comment! http://www.huffingtonpost.com/wednesday-martin/when-and-why-you-shouldnt_b_343135.html