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Summer in the Hamptons — Events

Published by Wednesday Martin
Like reciprocal grooming among female  papio cynocephalus (savannah baboons), attending events is an affiliative behavior that promotes group and dyadic cohesion
Like reciprocal grooming among female papio cynocephalus (savannah baboons), attending events is an affiliative behavior that promotes group and dyadic cohesion

In the Hamptons in the summer, there are plenty of "events." Charity luncheons, charity dinners, auctions for a good cause, shopping for a good cause, or just "girls nights out" (we like to go out together without our husbands or our kids sometimes!) — you can be as busy as you like. When we go to these events, we affirm our tribal affiliation, just by being there--it shows that we care about the same things — and by connecting with one another.


It's too darn hot — style in a Manhattan heatwave

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Tribal adornment, Upper East Side
Tribal adornment, Upper East Side

In my tribe, going without a pedicure in the summer is almost like walking out of your apartment naked. You just wouldn't do it. And if you did, you wouldn't feel right about it.  Pedicures are an important part of our summer uniform. This form of ritualized adornment and self-display says, "I took the time to do this." We believe it makes us more attractive to men....or do we do it for each other?


Local flora in summer migratory setting

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Scuttlehole Road, Bridgehampton
Scuttlehole Road, Bridgehampton

It's been rainy but these hydrangea are beautiful in any weather. They are everywhere on the East End of Long Island, aka the Hamptons, where my tribe migrates for the summer season. This particular road takes me to Physique 57, where I do the world's most punitive ballet barre workout a few times per week with loads of other Manhattan moms. But that's for another post....


Primates of Park Avenue Sold!

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Primates of Park Avenue has a new home….
Primates of Park Avenue has a new home….

The press release just went out: Primates of Park Avenue will be published by Simon & Schuster. I am thrilled with the book's new home. The description in industry newsletter Publishers Marketplace reads....


Mothers Who Drink — the New Normal

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Plenty of mommies drink. Some of us drink an endless “glass of wine” starting at 5 pm….
Plenty of mommies drink. Some of us drink an endless “glass of wine” starting at 5 pm….

A girlfriend with kids the same age as mine texted me the other day. "Call me so we can have a drink," she suggested. She meant, call me so we can chat on the phone while we have a glass of wine. Because it was 5:30 and because like most of the women with children we know, we're mothers who drink.


The Men Who Never Evolved — Wendy Davis's Fillibuster

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Bi-pedal, semi-continuously sexually receptive female primate and keen maternal strategist Wendy Davis surrounded by high-ranking male primates
Bi-pedal, semi-continuously sexually receptive female primate and keen maternal strategist Wendy Davis surrounded by high-ranking male primates

Primatologists would take the long view of Wendy Davis's Texas filibuster.


The World's Best Dads....

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Aka dads are highly involved in childcare. They even “nurse” their babies!
Aka dads are highly involved in childcare. They even “nurse” their babies!

If you look to the Aka people, foragers of Central Congo, the bar is pretty high on Father's Day. The Aka are known among anthropologists as "the best fathers in the world." During his fieldwork among the Aka, anthropologist Barry Hewlett learned that Aka dads are highly involved with their children: